Life coach Sandra staring fiercely at the camera

Freedom to be YOU.

Claim it

Your midLIFE is the time to claim your “Freedom to be ME” energy.

Want to know how?

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Life for me used to be filled with overwhelm and big sighs.

My thoughts kept me wide-eyed at 2 in the morning.

Old stories on repeat.

Mocking me.

Telling me I’m not enough.

Saying do this. Do that. Be her.

AGHHHH.

I wanted to unplug the brain television.

I know how it feels when you’re..
  • Exhausted because your mind wants to be your enemy every night

  • Staring at the partner sleeping next to you wondering if you actually love each other

  • Living in this ‘blah’ existence that looks hunky-dory to outsiders

  • Planning a vacation to ‘relax’ and secretly praying you never have to fly back to your current life

One day. The straw will break the camel’s back. This was my moment where that happened to me.

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Sandra dancing in joy

Meet Sandra

I remember the night so vividly…

After years of habitual self-judging, and self-doubt I was tired.

Tired of living my life for others, tired of not loving the person in the mirror.

Just plain tired.

After a long slumber of avoidance, hiding, failed relationships and heartache I woke up.

I woke up to the fact that I had a choice in this life.

I could choose to live my best damn life or keep looping through disappointment.

I chose me. I chose self-love. I chose showing up and doing the work. I chose to live my best damn life.

This was also the night my personal journey to claim my “Freedom to be ME” energy started.

The journey where I released my thoughts and fears around what other people think of me.

The journey where I reclaimed my power and realized my happiness is a priority. That’s the ‘This is ME’ energy we’re talking about.

The journey where I finally started treating my body like a home and not an enemy, letting her exist without tearing her apart.

I found clarity, confidence and choice in my life.

I decided my midlife wasn’t going to be a time of crisis…

It would be the Freedom to be me journey…

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Self-confidence boils over when you walk in the room.

Passion radiates from your smile, skin, words, and aura whenever you do anything that aligns with your ‘This is ME’ attitude.

More of this.

Please. Thank You.

Your life is what you want. And no sideways comments even remotely pull you away from it.

You get uncomfortable. Do the work. Bask in the results that make you feel LUCKY that you get to wake up as the best version of you on the daily.

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I wasn’t always this bold…

Sandra as a small child sitting on a chair by a pool

0-5

Moved to California
Very shy

Sandra as young girl playing soccer

5-10

My mom had me do it all—swimming, gymnastics, soccer, softball

Sandra as a pre-teen in a blue match set with tall white boots

10-15

Geeky teen years, super self-conscious

Sandra as a teen wearing white blouse and royal blue pants

15-20

Experimenting with style, personalities, drinking and wondering how or where I fit in

20-25

College, partying and first love and heartbreak

Sandra as young adult accepting MBA at graduation

25-30

Checking all the boxes, MBA, marriage, corporate job

30-35

Mom passes, marriage struggling, infertility issues

Sandra in hospital after giving birth to her son

35-40

6 rounds of IVF, become a Mom

40-45

Get divorced, Dad passes, first full-blown panic attack

Sandra happy soaking up the sun on a beach walk

45-50

Learn to love myself, become a certified life coach, quit corporate job

Sandra fierce, happy, and confident at 50

50-Present

FREEDOM to be ME, LOVE, CURIOSITY, JOY

Sandra smiling and ready to tackle coaching new women

Let’s Work Together—

And light your life on fire

To reframe your mindset. Excitement that reminds you of the tiny bubbles in a glass of champagne. You get to wake up as you. Every day. And that’s the dream you’ve been entering REM for your entire life.

Private Coaching

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1:1 Coaching

You are ready to create a jaw-dropping life. And by jaw-dropping, we mean YOUR jaw is dropping. We don’t care about other people’s jaws. This is where you say WOW - I’ve been waiting my whole life for the freedom to be me.

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Midlife Reset Membership

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The Midlife Reset Membership

Too good to pass up. A pen in your hand. Unscramble the self-doubt. Rewrite your story. Scribble the heck out of what’s on your heart and claim your freedom to be me energy. You’re gonna want to take notes - this is good stuff.

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